As humans, we just need to take one step forward, but sometimes something holds us back. Sometimes we know exactly what is stopping us, and other times we have no idea what it is. It might be that we simply do not believe in ourselves, or maybe we are making up limits and rules in our own heads that are not even real.
We often say "I can't" or "it's impossible," and while that might be true sometimes, it usually isn't. Most of the time, it is just a mindset or fake limits we put on ourselves. Why don't we stop and think twice? Are we holding back because someone else succeeded and we didn't, or are we just waiting for the perfect time? The truth is, waiting for the "right time" doesn't always work, because every single moment serves its own unique purpose, and we just have to act in the time we have right now.
Just remember what a wise man once said: "Easy choice, hard life; hard choice, easy life." We sometimes make mistakes out of fear, and then we have to pay a painful price. Are we running away from hard choices just to avoid that big pain? Or is it that once we make a mistake and suffer the consequences, we stop believing we are strong enough to handle it again? We end up taking a step backward just to protect ourselves from reliving that exact same pain.
Every achievement and every gain comes with some pain. You have to weigh this balance every time, because whenever you gain something, you are also losing something else. Sometimes you just have to let go. When you realize that the loss will be greater than the gain, it is better to just let that gain go. If we don't make that choice, we might end up losing a small, good, and pure part of ourselves in the process.
to be continue .................
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